My experience working with clients in my nursing practice for the last 14 years, is that people are fervently seeking healing. People want to feel more energetic, have less pain, worry less and have greater inner peace. Out of this burning need for health, people seek a cure from their healthcare providers. They want the right diagnosis, the right pill, the right quick-fix.
And I have to admit that I have a lot of my career being very invested in matching this burning need to be fixed by urgently trying to “fix” others. There was a time when I was much to invested in my identity as a healer, both to the detriment of my energy and the detriment of my client’s sovereignty.
This happens for a lot of highly sensitive folks. With our innate gifts of empathy and compassion possibly combined with upbringings of emotional caretaking of other adults, it can be a natural choice to desire to be the fixer and the rescuer.
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